It takes a lot of courage to release the familiar and seemingly secure, to embrace the new.
But there is no real security in what is no longer meaningful.
There is more security in the adventurous and exciting, for in movement there is life, and in change there is power.
Alan Cohen
"Outside of a dog, a book is a man's best friend.
Inside of a dog, it's too dark to read."
Groucho Marx
The doors we open and close each day decide the lives we live.

Sunday, December 13, 2015


Comments are great ....  but for the person who seems to think a comment means critiquing how I write, you can save your energy.
I will not publish your comment.
Whether it is about how much coffee I drink or anything else.

I have no idea who you are.
We are not pals, just because you read my blog.
Reading my blog does not give you any right to make personal judgements or give me advice that is not asked for or appreciated.

So Thank You to my Friends who know what this Blogging World is like and how sometimes a nutter gets through and you have to deal with it.


  1. Hmmm, pounding them into Nutter Butter sounds like good exercise and fairly entertaining...

  2. OH dear...why do they bother?
    It is usually non-bloggers who leave the rude comments...
    At least you can delete them...
    Would love to see what they write! Hahaha!
    You are the better person Candice!
    Crappy rainy day here...but still warm!
    Linda :o)

    1. I think a lot of times it is people who think they know more than everyone else. .. thanks to friends and advice, I will try something new in dealing with them.
      love you.

  3. Linda, I find it to be a very arrogant person who thinks they can advise or critique a total stranger on what they say/write/talk about. Self important and smug.
    I am not really the better person lol I just have to choose my battles these days .. love u.

  4. And to the person who nicely told me , although anonymously, that my blog had changed .. well yeah.

  5. I have had some awful things said to me and then that person says "but I am a good person" Like I am not ?
    Criticized my artwork and my name but I am the bad person ?
    I don't get it.
    Who ever said whatever to you they are the jerks.
    I like your blog.

    cheers, parsnip

    1. Thank you dear. I always thought that if you read blogs and you don't like one, you just don't read it. I had no idea people thought it was required of them to tell the blog owner that they did not like it.
      Some people are so puffed up with self importance,they think the fact that they don't like something matters to others.


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