Life Goes On

Once upon s time there was this girl who lived in all kinds of interesting and beautiful places.
She had a husband who loved her, who was adventurous and , fun .
They had a. lot of fun and enjoyed their life together.
But as they say, "All Good Things Come  To An End."

I learned many lessons...
Grief can make a person behave in ways that they never would have behaved..say things that they regretted.
There have been many instances of Wishing I could take that back.
The people I considered "friends " left me to be sad and mean ..sadly there is a real difference in "Friends " in Real Life and Online.

Sad and lonely times seemed to be my Future.
Then a combination of Time and Healing  helped me get my new self together.

I started a new life,which,sadly,involved more loss.
I left the house we had bought in. NY and I moved to Florida...where snow was not a worry, where I would not be so isolated ,alone, but not isolated.
Shortly after moving into the townhouse with my little cat and my gorgeous old man,Merlin the magical cat..my mom died suddenly.

I guess I am proof that you can live with a heart that has been irreparably broken....
The help I got was my daughters caring help and Time ...my heart was broken, it's still healing but I think I have myself a lot more together than I was.

I just have to Stop and think before I blurt out something that might not be taken well by someone else.
The cats don't have a problem with me so I think we can keep fumbling along...

I am going to see if I can have a more interesting life,the cats and I,on to new adventures...
Just us....you are welcome to come along.....